Waiting for a guy to call or text first is actually you playing mind games with him.
Players should not stand on another player's line of putt or, when they are making a stroke, cast a shadow over their line of putt.
Try not to think about it too much.
All on my own and with the help of some friend, online forums, online counseling was I able to let go cause it festered for years.
Many guys are turned on by when girls text first.
Before you know it, he has you in stitches.